Mall Cop Syndrome

We all know the type. Someone is put in a position of limited power, and then they immediately become a little tyrant. I call it Mall Cop Syndrome. The real name is Little Authority Complex.
The “little authority complex”—sometimes referred to as “Little Power Syndrome”—is a psychological dynamic where someone given a minor amount of power uses it aggressively or rigidly to overcompensate for underlying feelings of insecurity, often bullying others to feel important.
Lord Acton famously said, “Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.” When authority is handed to people who have never had any authority, sometimes bad things happen. Instead of approaching the position with grace and understanding, they feel suddenly imbued and emboldened. They embark on a power trip and tend to make up arbitrary and capricious rules or belittle others they have power over. We see “Mall Cops” everywhere. The front desk clerk. The maitre d’ at a fancy restaurant. The bouncer at a nightclub. The meter maid. And don’t get me started about HOA people. I have several run-ins with HOA tyrants.
But what happens if you find yourself under a supervisor or mid-level manager at work?
Rich Salon, an HR expert and fellow Rotarian, wrote a book last year called the One-Minute Jerk at Work, and there are some good tips in the book on how to handle “Mall Cops” you find at work, such as Micro-Managing Maria and Bullying Betty. Rich asked me to write the foreword on a book about jerks. Imagine that.
What happens if you happen to be confronted by a Mall Cop in real life?
Most “Mall Cops” tend to be a minor nuisance if you know how to deal with them. My advice? If you find yourself being bullied, you can bully back. No, I’m not saying resort to the same behaviors, but I do think most Mall Cops shrink when you call them out on the behavior and become assertive. Stand up for yourself calmly and confidently. Use clear and direct language to express that their behavior is unacceptable.
MONDAY:
MEMORIAL DAY
On Monday, we remembered the fallen. Freedom isn’t free, and this Memorial Day, we honored those who died serving our nation.
Last Friday, I was able to thank some veterans personally at the Tech For Troops inaugural Bourbon & Cigar event. It was a great time. Cigars, Bourbon, wild game, auction items, and good company. I’m already looking forward to next year’s fundraiser. Check out some of the pics on their Facebook page.

TUESDAY:
AD-ING TO THE MIX
Unique marketing plans for unique clients call for unique ad placements—and that means learning & development opportunities! On Tuesday, the Accounts Team gathered ‘round to learn about the latest and greatest in the world of digital advertising. What’s to come, you ask? Google’s search bar might be getting smarter.
WEDNESDAY:
A SHELL OF A DAY
Mother’s Day was earlier this month, but Mother Nature brought Account Manager Leigh Ann Kiebler and Copywriter Robyn Quarles a belated gift—turtle babies?! Although on opposite sides of the river, the two announced via Slack that a couple of turtle mamas deemed their respective properties a safe place to lay their eggs. Tune back in 70-90 days to see when they hatch! And, no, Robyn, don’t even think about bringing the baby snappers into the office.


THURSDAY:
FATHERHOOD
Special thanks to my friend Jeff Katz, who invited me as his guest to the Fatherhood Foundation breakfast on Thursday morning at the Westin Hotel. It was a great event, and it was good to see so many great Dads: TJ & Tom Leonard, Todd Mawyer of TK Promotions, Stan Andrewski (Certified Auto Repair and co-host of In The Garage on WRVA), and Richmond Mayor Danny Avula.
But it was former Virginia Attorney General Jason Miyares who stole the show, delivering a highly personal speech about the importance of fatherhood. I highly recommend checking out what Chris Beach and his team are doing at The Fatherhood Foundation. Yes, they do good work for a good cause, but it’s IMPORTANT work.

FRIDAY:
BABY, LOVE ME ‘CAUSE I’M PLAYING ON THE RADIO
Friday’s on our minds, and I’m on the airwaves! Spent this morning with my dear friend Rich Herrera on WRVA Richmond Morning News, talking about all the fun things to do in good ol’ RVA. ICYMI, check it out here!
A FEW OF OUR FAVORITE EVENTS
Hitting Cancer Below the Belt: Boxer Brief 5K
June 6th & 7th, 2026
3201 Maplewood Avenue, Richmond, VA 23221
The 14th Annual Boxer Brief 5K will be held at City Stadium, home to the Richmond Kickers. Start time is 8:15 a.m. and the course begins and ends within the complex. A high-energy event which includes music, costumes, vendors, games, and awards.
If you live outside the Richmond, Virginia area and do not plan to travel to the onsite event, consider joining us through the Virtual Challenge. Join the cross-country movement and help to save buns anywhere under the sun.
Come early to have your children participate in the Caped Colon Crusader fun run for children six and under, or the Toddler Trot for our new running toddlers, or the Diaper Dash for our smallest competitors. Register online today!
“If you’re horrible to me, I’m going to write a song about it, and you won’t like it. That’s how I operate.” – Taylor Swift